Stop Looking At Others

Now and then Leona comments on how much I write (being kind enough to understand I get a bit behind here). Of course I admire her drive and energy (and the ability to get published). I’m sure there are plenty of writers that you think well of.

Stop thinking well of others and thinking about what they’re doing right.

I want you to ask what’s admirable about you and your writing. Go on–right now–take a piece of paper (that stuff we used before computers, made from mashed trees), and spend five minutes writing down what makes you and your writing stand out. Write down the big and the small, the major and the minor.

I’m sure you found something. Maybe several somethings. Maybe a lot of somethings. Either way, I’m sure you’ve got at least a little on that list.

These items are what make you great, and it’s time you pay attention to them.

It’s easy to pay attention to the virtues of others. In many cases, it’s a good idea: they’ll help you grow, inspire you, and help you find role models. The virtues of others has its place.

But it’s easy to forget what we are truly good at — or even potentially good at.

So I want you to appreciate what you’re good at.

When you do that, you:

• Develop your special traits and abilities.
• Appreciate how you can help others.
• Leverage what you have — you may have all you need to move your writing to the next level.
• Overcome those moments you feel down about yourself.
• Avoid being distracted by what other people can do.
• Find out what you can share with others.

So, take a moment, stop looking at other authors — look at yourself.

What are you good at? What are your special traits? Let us know — we might want to ask you a few questions!